While everyone wants to have a special story about meeting her hubby at a wine tasting and falling in love at first sight, the real world is much messier. You might end up falling for your friend with benefits, and trust me, it can work out.
Here's why: 1. Best Friends There are different types of rleationship with benefits. There is the type that meets up, has sex and immediately leaves without a kiss or a cuddle.
Then, there is the type that drives to your place to hang out like buddies and watch TV, and then you have sex as a bonus. Some people jump into relationships with men they barely know, but you know your partner all too well. If you decide to date, the fact that you were friends first is a huge benefit.
Good Sex At some point, your relationship revolved around sex, which means you must have been getting it good. When you transition from FWB to boyfriend and girlfriend, a lot of things will change, but the amazing sex will stay the same. When you meet a nice, sweet guy, sometimes you force repationship feelings into existence.
But, if you love your FWB, the opposite occurs. However, you two were basically boyfriend and girlfriend without the title, back when you were friends with benefits.
Most people will try to convince you a FWB relationship will never survive the transition into a monogamous one. Of course, there are always exceptions. cohld
There are plenty of people who started out as banging buddies, but ended up happily married.