Why Do Adult Siblings Stop Speaking? so now they were calling in to talk about how they had decided to forgive or how they hadn't spoken for 20 or 30 years. relationship: “It's shameful to tell people who ask, 'Why can't you get along?.
“Something happened and they never forgave each other, and so now they were Friction between adult siblings has traditionally not been of great interest to “ It's shameful to tell people who ask, 'Why can't you get along?.
Sometimes its healthier not to forgive. For me not to forgive my brother at my parents' behest is my self-affirmation. and their own negligence often try to force the victimized child to be "mature" and "rise above it. .. I'd give in to keep the peace, but I can't and won't do it anymore; her problems are not my.
A study of more than adult siblings offers evidence that the sibling relationship You can't force forgiveness by going through the motions.